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Obama, in stand for gay rights, calls for repeal of DOMA

In nod to gay rights, Obama backs repeal of DOMA (Defense of Marriage Act), which defines marriage as between one man and one woman and withholds federal benefits from gay married couples.

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After their marriage, Vorro applied to include her wife on her health insurance plan. Federal officials cited DOMA and refused the request. Rather than receive a routine benefit for married spouses, Ms. Coderre had to pay $635 a month to purchase her own health insurance policy.

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Vorro estimates the extra cost may ultimately reach $150,000. The sole reason for the extra cost, she said, is DOMA.

“As Rosa Parks might have said, it is time to get up from the back of the bus and assume our seats among our fellow human beings,” Coderre said.

Robin Garber of Staten Island has been married for five years to Kathleen Cumiskey. She said whenever the couple travels from state to state in the US they must bring a box of legal documents – including wills, health-care proxies, and powers of attorney – to be able to prove their legal commitment and responsibility to each other in the event of an emergency.

In contrast, Ms. Garber said, the couple can travel overseas to Spain, Ireland, and South Africa without their documents because in each of those countries their marriage is fully recognized and respected.

Robert Koehl, a professor of classical archaeology at New York’s Hunter College, and his partner, Stylianos Manolakakis, have been together for 15 years. Mr. Manolakakis is a Greek citizen who has been living in the US on a visa. Although the two New York residents could get married under New York law, that marriage would not be recognized by the federal government, including immigration officials.

They have been advised by their lawyer to postpone any marriage plans until Manolakakis’s immigration status can been resolved.

If they were a heterosexual couple, their marriage would speed the immigration process and ensure that they were not separated by national borders. Instead, they say, DOMA stands in the way.

“If DOMA got repealed, we would get married the following day,” Mr. Koehl said.

“I am nearly 60 years old,” he said. “How much longer will I have to wait to enjoy the stability of a marriage with my long-term partner without the fear that at any time we will have to separate?”