A life and times, for sale on eBay

When John Freyer decided to sell everything in his apartment on eBay, an auction website, his friends gave him funny looks. Some people even worried that he was planning to commit suicide.

But Mr. Freyer, a graduate student at the University of Iowa, was simply trying to divest himself of items that were reining in his mobility. In the process of getting rid of his canned goods, boxer shorts, and computer equipment, he was finding the answer to that oft-asked question, "What would I do if I suddenly lost all my possessions?"

His experiences selling his kitsch and clothes are chronicled in his new book "All My Life for Sale" (Bloomsbury), named after the website he created to catalog his belongings when he auctioned them off in 2000 and 2001. Meant more for a coffee table than a long plane ride, the book features descriptions of former items of Freyer's and updates on where they are now.

His stories about why he owned false teeth and an album called "How to Belly-Dance for Your Husband" are diverting, but it's the ideas about consumerism and community building raised by the project that are truly thought-provoking.

For Freyer's tale is not just about selling off your prized possessions to strangers. It's also about making friends, as he did with many of the buyers, who invited him to come see how his items were faring. Even before he hit the road, documenting his visits on another website called temporama.com, he was forming relationships in unexpected ways – sharing not just goods, but culture.

"One of the things I realized in the middle of this project," he says in a phone interview, "is that the types of correspondence back and forth mimicked a previous time of exchange, which was not a strict commodity exchange, but an exchange of ideas as well."

As was the case during the spice trade, he says, "you're not just buying spices, but you're sharing culture back and forth. And on eBay ... there are those types of exchanges when people are selling things. 'Oh did you know that this has this history,' and so on."

He started the bidding for all his items at $1, and some, like his salt shaker and matchbook collection, sold for exactly that amount. Media attention along the way helped bump prices higher, with 16 potential buyers slugging it out for his two-volume Oxford English Dictionary. That drew the most money of any of his belongings: $183.52.

As Freyer slowly started losing things he needed to survive – from his toaster to his winter coat – he adapted his lifestyle, eating out instead of cooking, for example, once his kitchen table and utensils were gone.

"But I didn't forget the recipes, I didn't forget how to use a knife. You don't lose those things that are within you," he says.

His buyers came from as far away as England and Japan. One of his T-shirts went to a divinity-school student from Claremont, Calif., who saw similarities between the graduate student and another man who gave up his possessions and traveled: Jesus.

Freyer sees his motivation – which is not quite holy, as he did make money, after all – as a typical reaction to having too much stuff.

"The initial thought of downsizing or eliminating some things was, I think, a very common response. In my case, I was returning from New York to Iowa City" after a summer job, he explains, saying his choice to return was dictated in part by the items in his apartment. "Had I not had these possessions, I probably would have stayed."

He ultimately sold about 600 items on eBay and another 600 in a yard sale.

He held back a few clothes, so he would have something to wear. But he sold his sideburns, which arguably weren't symbols of rampant consumerism. He has specific ideas about reaccumulating – he tries to buy second-hand items, or ones made in countries where people can vote. In the case of his sideburns, which went to Pittsburgh, he simply grew them back. "Did I have to shave them off forever?" he quips. "I don't know what the rules are."

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