For those who can afford them: a crop of American nannies
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One nanny, says Mrs. Urich, went to graduate school on the money she had saved.Skip to next paragraph
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Despite that, suitable candidates are not beating down the door. Several nanny schools have closed.
``Recruiting has been the hardest problem,'' says Sheffield. ``Why England can train 25,000 a year and we have to do triple somersaults to get people is beyond me.''
``The image of the nanny is notoriously undervalued,'' says Urich. ``Those who might go into the profession have the misconception that nannies are those who can't do anything else; that they're glorified babysitters. The other thing that we face is the belief that for a woman to be successful, she has to leave the house every day carrying a briefcase.''
The heavy demands the schools place on students might be another reason students aren't more attracted. Nannies-to-be are given psychological tests and background checks are made of criminal and driving records and academics.
``We lose 50 percent before we even start,'' says Sheffield. And the attrition rate runs 10 to 15 percent in the schools.
Once they make it through the gauntlet, the choice enables them to choose what part of the country they want to live in, and what age children to take care of. The job situations are as varied as the types of families. But nannies generally work about a 55-hour week, have their own rooms, and have two days off a week.
``Each situation is unique: Some parents want to come home at 6:00 and have the nanny be gone; others have them make dinner and eat with family,'' says Urich. ``One thing they all have to work on is the transitional time when the authority changes.''
Sandy Shores has no problem turning her charges over to the parents. She has dinner on the table at 6:20, and then scoots out for a 6:30 aerobics class, leaving John and Shirley with the children for the evening.
``I really enjoy it when they come home,'' she says. ``I'm like, `Hi guys, they're yours!'''
While Shores may clean up the breakfast dishes, cook dinner, and straighten up after the boys, she does no heavy cleaning. Nannies generally do not clean or cook, except for the children. But families can make whatever deal they want with the nanny, and many work out written job contracts.
``I know nannies that work 24 hours a day; they're in charge of the house, they're in charge of the kids,'' says Shores. For all this, they don't come cheap. Shores, at $900 a month for a 40-hour week (with overtime) - is on the low end of the scale.
``Yes, nannies are expensive,'' says Mr. Browner-Cheronis, ``but you have to factor in the intangibles. The idea of having two kids of different ages in day care, which is usually not in the same area, you're talking a logistical nightmare of getting them back and forth second only to the Normandy invasion.''
And, he says, when you figure the cost of having two children in day care, the cost of a nanny seems more reasonable.
Even so, the families that can afford nannies are ones with two working professionals bringing in a steady income.
``Not necessarily wealthy,'' says Urich. ``A family making $50,000 could afford a nanny if they shared her with another family.''
``Some families are ordinary people, like teachers,'' says Beverly Benjamin, president of American Nanny Plan, a nanny school and agency in Claremont, Calif. ``If you want to continue with your career, the mother figures she has to use her whole salary [for child care]. Then when the children are older and don't need a nanny, she's still in the mainstream of her career.''