Everywhere we go there are people wearing masks, and our once-familiar world appears quite upside down! But masks cannot change the nature and character of any one of us, any more than Halloween masks hide the innocence of the children ringing doorbells looking for treats. Seeing their little smiles trying to hide behind an array of brightly stitched costumes doesn’t fool us, when we know beneath each mask is a child whose joy and innocence are still intact.
Masks can appear in deeper forms; they are not only physical. During a birthday party for our grandson many years ago, my then daughter-in-law became upset when she learned one of the invited children was bringing a cousin who she remembered as rude and selfish. She was convinced this little girl would ruin the party.
Instead of agreeing with her, I asked that she might give this little girl a chance and expect good behavior. Then, I began to pray and affirm that all God’s children are naturally generous, obedient, and kind, because they reflect God’s nature. Understanding this was how I began to strip off – unmask – the disguise of an unruly child.
I’ve learned through Christian Science that the nature and character of each one of us is the expression of divinity. We are spiritual, not material, complete, not fragmented. If we want to see this perfection in others, we must start by affirming what is spiritually true about them as the expressions of God, Spirit. Otherwise, we are mistaking an imperfect appearance for the reality.
Mary Baker Eddy, the founder of the Monitor and author of “Science and Health with Key to the Scriptures,” included a chapter in her book that indicates a spiritual way of understanding certain words as they appear in the Bible. The chapter defines “children,” in part, as “the spiritual thoughts and representatives of Life, Truth, and Love” (p. 582). This truth applies to each one of us. It does not matter what one’s background or history is. What does matter is the fact that we are each made in the image and likeness of God, divine Love. Ever-present Love alone defines us and expresses in us qualities such as wisdom, goodness, spirituality, and grace.
Well, thinking along these lines made all the difference, and, as I expected, the party went on without any problems. In fact, it was noted at the end how lovely this little girl had been. She was generous and kind. It was a complete turnaround from what this mother had feared.
Science and Health states, “It is ignorance and false belief, based on a material sense of things, which hide spiritual beauty and goodness” (p. 304). As we drop a false material sense and gain a spiritual sense of our and others’ true individuality, we begin to understand the laws of Love that govern everyone. This spiritual sense assures us that, in reality, spiritual beauty and goodness cannot be hidden by any mask, physical or mental. The Bible tells us we can never be separated from God, the very source of love itself!
No matter what the guidelines are as our communities reopen, and despite what is paraded in front of us, nothing can keep us from demonstrating the power and presence of divine Love in our daily lives. While working toward the goal of getting back into a normal routine, and enjoying the company of friends and strangers alike, it might be helpful to remove the masks mentally first – to see beyond any false claim about our neighbor that may present itself to our thought. Instead, let’s see the children of God as God sees them – uncontaminated, unafraid, confident, and joyful. We will find this acknowledgment goes a long way, just as it did with that little girl all those years ago.
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