For queer Nigerians, Pride celebrations mark hope and resilience

Although homosexuality is illegal in Nigeria, more LGBTQ+ people are finding the courage to celebrate during Pride month. In 2017, a poll found 83% of Nigerians would not accept an LGBTQ+ family member. In 2019, that number dropped to about 60%.

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President Muhammadu Buhari, speaks at the Paris Peace Forum, in Paris, Nov. 11, 2021. Nigeria is one of many African countries that have laws against homosexuality. Queer Nigerians are finding courage to celebrate resilience with hopes of acceptance during Pride month.

YouTuber Victor Emmanuel knows first-hand how tough life is for people who are openly gay in Nigeria, where LGBTQ+ relationships and even same-sex displays of affection are illegal.

Last year, he was kidnapped by seven men who blackmailed, extorted, and tortured him for two days in an attack that has since left him constantly looking over his shoulder.

“It is living with the fear of possible killing or incarceration for who I literally am. You are constantly having to explain your existence,” said Mr. Emmanuel, who dropped out of university after the attack.

This month, however, he will be joining LGBTQ+ Pride events in Lagos as campaigners band together to party and share stories in defiance against laws and conservative societal norms that limit their rights and self-expression.

“Pride month means a month to celebrate my queerness because most of the [year] I’m fighting, struggling, and pushing back at society,” said Mr. Emmanuel, who runs the “For Fags Sake” YouTube channel about Nigerian LGBTQ+ issues.

“It is when I can actually sit and celebrate.”

Nigeria is a deeply religious country, where many reject homosexuality as a corrupting Western import.

In 2014, the Same-Sex Marriage (Prohibition) Act was signed into law, which bars not only gay relationships but also any public sign of same-sex affection or membership of LGBTQ+ groups, with punishments of up to 14 years in prison.

Gay sex is illegal in more than half of African countries, according to global LGBTQ+ rights tracker Equaldex, although Gabon, Kenya, and Botswana have all decriminalized same-sex relations in recent years.

But despite the risks, activists are pushing to express themselves and demand change this June, a month which is marked around the world with LGBTQ+ Pride rallies and parties.

Nigerian LGBTQ+ events have been growing in number and size in recent years, although they remain behind closed doors due to safety and legal concerns.

Celebrations this year are centered around the week-long Pride in Lagos event which will include art exhibitions, a drag contest, and a ball.

“[It] was birthed from the need for there to be Pride,” said the event organizer Olaide Kayode Timileyin.

“It is to put the fact that LGBT+ persons exist in Lagos.”

Growing Visibility

While there have been no convictions under the same-sex marriage act, rights groups, and activists say it effectively sanctions abuses of LGBTQ+ people and has emboldened both police officers and members of the public to carry out attacks.

The legislation amounts to “carefully constructed state violence” which “exacerbates queer-phobia and prevents us from having a community”, said Kayode Ani Somtochukwu, founder of the Queer Union for Economic and Social Transformation (QUEST).

The Ministry of Justice and the police force did not immediately respond to requests for comment.

In 2018, a group of 47 men were arrested and later charged for allegedly joining a gay club, in a case that drew international outcry and was widely seen as a test of the law.

The men said they were at a birthday party and the case was thrown out by a judge due to the “lack of diligent prosecution.”

But LGBTQ+ people are growing increasingly vocal and visible, with the internet providing a space for gay-friendly films, talk shows, and websites.

With rights groups barred from formally registering as an organization under the same-sex marriage law, most organizing, and support groups take place online.

Campaigners held what they say was the country’s first in-person LGBTQ+ rights protest this year, which took place in May in the capital city of Abuja.

Growing Acceptance

There is little prospect the same-sex marriage law will be repealed in the foreseeable future due to a lack of support from lawmakers, said Obinna Okoronkwo, a lawyer at Templars law firm.

“The only action that can repeal this law is an act of the national assembly,” he said.

Although acceptance has been growing, some that feel Nigeria’s laws are important and should remain. As The Monitor reported in July 2015: 

Repealing the law would be difficult and run against the national tide, despite the drop in the percentage of those who support it. 

“This result is a great shift,” says [Bisi] Alimi, adding that that the shift over the past five years was important for advocates, who face arrest and persecution....

But generational shifts may bring change. Younger adults, ages 18 to 25, are 30 percent more likely to be familiar with some who is a gay, a promising number for future advocacy, says Mr. Alimi.

“Change always happens with young people. It is always the ways of the world. They are the future of the world,” Mr. Alimi says. “That’s why I am very particular about youth investment.”

But for Sarah Nwosu, a graduate who fits the youth demographic that is most likely to change their perceptions on gay rights over time, the law is a good thing.  

“I support the law that bans it and it should stand,” she says. “Anyone involved in it should be given the maximum sentence as prescribed in the law.”

Polls suggest that attitudes are slowly shifting, although hostility remains commonplace, with campaigners saying growing visibility online is helping to build acceptance among younger generations in particular.

About 60% of Nigerians said they would not accept a family member who is LGBTQ+, down from 83% in 2017, found a 2019 poll commissioned by Nigerian rights group the Initiative for Equal Rights (TIERs). Three quarters of respondents said they supported the Same-Sex Marriage (Prohibition) Act, but that has dropped by 12% within four years, it found.

“Technology has helped to amplify the visibility of LGBTQI+ persons,” said Remi Makinde, the executive director of TIERs.

“The ability to freely express oneself in a very repressive world definitely helps to educate [people] about accepting queer persons in the country.”

Activists remain hopeful for change, with YouTuber Emmanuel saying he hopes to see “queer liberation” within years.

“Before we organized the protest in Abuja, many people believed it could not happen,” added Mr. Somtochukwu.

“We are still at the beginning stages. ... If we don’t fight for [rights] it is not going to happen.”

This story was reported by the Thomson Reuters Foundation.

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