Gen. George Patton: Six not-so-gentle father-to-son tips

The new book, 'Growing Up Patton: Reflections on Heroes, History, and Family Wisdom,' shares letters written by Gen. George Patton to his his son. Here are six pieces of advice from these letters.

4. On self-confidence: the greatest thing a man can have

"Remember that General Pershing told me once that self-confidence is the greatest thing a man can have. Joe Louis is not a great boxer, but he thinks he is a great fighter so he is. Men are never beaten by anything but their own souls when the latter curl up.

"Before I went to Sicily [this letter was written in May 1944], I marked on my map the places I thought I would have battles, and I was 100 percent right. I just got through marking a map of Europe today. I hope I come out as well both in winning and picking – I am sure I will."

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