Homesick at summer camp: five tips for parents with unhappy campers

Give you kids time to settle, make friends and have fun before bringing them home, say our teen experts in their five tips for dealing with kids who get homesick while at summer camp.

Courtesy of Crystal Lake Camps
Even if they struggling with being homesick, our teen experts say that parents should give their kids time to settle and make friends before bringing them home from summer camp. In this 2010 file photo, campers play Tug-of-War at Crystal Lake Camps in Hughesville, Pa.

Every summer I help parents deal with this issue: kids are homesick and want to come home from camp. This is certainly not an easy one, but there are a few guiding principles:

1. Don't immediately panic. Some initial homesickness is to be expected.

2. Try to buy time. Tell your child to give it a little more time and then you'll revisit. In the meantime, your child may settle in comfortably.

3. If you are worried, get feedback from the camp staff about how your child seems to be doing.

4. Keep in mind that homesickness is contagious and all of the kids in the bunk may gradually move from homesickness to happiness.

5. If your child is telling you something that is very troubling, then by all means assess the situation and consider whether or not coming home is the necessary response.

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