'How To Be a Woman': 8 of Caitlin Moran's stories

Check out 8 stories from writer 'How To Be a Woman,' Caitlin Moran's tongue-in-cheek examination of what it means to be a woman today.

7. Outfit judging

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Moran says that she believes women being judged on what they wear is a phenomenon that is not extended to men. "They have never felt that uncomfortable moment when someone assesses what you're wearing and then starts talking down to you... or presumes you won't 'understand' the conversation – be it about work, parenting or culture – simply because of what you put on that day. 'Wait!' you often feel like saying. 'If I were wearing my collegiate corduroy jacket, instead of this school-run dress, you would include me in your conversation about Jung! If you could see my 'politically engaged' shoes, no way would you talk about Barack Obama like that to me! Look! I can show you a picture of it on my iPhone! I HAVE AN OUTFIT FOR THIS OCCASION – JUST NOT ON ME!'"

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Dear Reader,

About a year ago, I happened upon this statement about the Monitor in the Harvard Business Review – under the charming heading of “do things that don’t interest you”:

“Many things that end up” being meaningful, writes social scientist Joseph Grenny, “have come from conference workshops, articles, or online videos that began as a chore and ended with an insight. My work in Kenya, for example, was heavily influenced by a Christian Science Monitor article I had forced myself to read 10 years earlier. Sometimes, we call things ‘boring’ simply because they lie outside the box we are currently in.”

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But you know what? We change lives. And I’m going to argue that we change lives precisely because we force open that too-small box that most human beings think they live in.

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We have a mission beyond circulation, we want to bridge divides. We’re about kicking down the door of thought everywhere and saying, “You are bigger and more capable than you realize. And we can prove it.”

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