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Republican kids: When partisan politics stretch parent-child bonds

Republican kids and Democrat parents: the strains of partisan politics in Washington can be mimicked at home if a child comes home with different political views than Mom and Dad.

By Leanne ItalieAssociated Press / August 29, 2012

A Republican son and Democrat dad, like Jake Wagner and his father Peter of Buffalo, N.Y., can cause friction at home when political views clash.

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When David Burrows took on Barry Goldwater and Ayn Rand as "mentors" at age 14, his parents wanted to know what else he was doing that they might be ashamed of.

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Andrew LaGrone's grandmother was an Edmund Muskie delegate at the Democratic National Convention in 1972 and was stunned when Andrew became a Republican at 19.

Growing up in Buffalo, Jake Wagner's dad assumed he'd be a Democrat. NOT.

While young people have gone "liberal" on their conservative parents for decades, teen crossovers to the GOP are more of a rarity. How do parental Dems and their Republican kids manage the familial bond when partisan politics are on the line?

As the Republican National Convention got off to a slow start Monday in Tampa, Fla., President Barack Obama continues his effort to get young people to the polls. Mr. Obama leads Mitt Romney 54 percent to 38 percent among voters younger than 35, according to the latest Associated Press-GfK poll.

No matter. The 21-year-old LaGrone in Nebraska and 19-year-old Wagner in New Hampshire are staying busy marshaling campus support for the Romney-Ryan ticket as they looked back on where it all began. Burrows, 50 and living in his hometown of Dallas, has lost both his parents, but he remembers their reaction to his Republican awakening like it was yesterday.

His dad threatened to cut him off financially once he mustered the courage to tell his parents he had broken from his Democratic roots to become head of the Baylor University GOP in 1983 – and a year later, chairman of the College Republicans of Texas.

"My dad made a comment about, well, the Republican Party's for rich people so maybe you should get your rich friends to pay your tuition," Burrows recalled, "and I was like, uh-oh, what have I done?"

And Mom? She would drop him off at the library while she went shopping. That's where he discovered Rand and Goldwater, the longtime Arizona senator and Mr. Conservative himself.

"My mom patted me and she goes, 'Well, that's good for you, but let's just keep this a secret in the family,'" he said. "I never understood how they lumped in my political views with taking drugs, having illicit sex and cheating on exams, but it somehow carried with it the same 'immoral' baggage."

Burrows did persuade his mother to vote Republican once, in a show of support for vice presidential candidate George H.W. Bush, and he crossed back over himself for the first time to support Obama. He doesn't know how he'll vote in November but has never forgotten the emotional turmoil of his political estrangement from his parents.

"It was almost like they lost a part of you in a way," he said. "I think it's what they thought."

Wagner said the first person his mother ever voted for in a presidential election was former Massachusetts Gov. Michael Dukakis in 1988. Growing up, his parents instilled in him an intense interest in U.S. history, presidents and politics. They were lifelong Democrats, and his passion — as a grade-schooler in 2000 — for John McCain was a stunner.

"It's just like passing on anything else that they have, because it's something that they value, their viewpoint," he said. "To reject it an early age, I think, is an insult to a parent."

But Wagner's dad, Peter, said he admires his son's fire for politics.

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