Readers Write: Nostalgia for the Postal Service; Oversexualization of society; Good parents can be made

Letters to the Editor for July 28, 2014 weekly magazine:

Willis: There is nothing like the feeling of receiving a hand written letter

Lozer: Santa Barbara shoots showed problems of society's oversexualiztion 

Gibel: Good parenting skills can be taught

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Nostalgia for the written letter

As a die-hard supporter of the [US Postal Service], I was delighted to read the July 7 & 14 Home Forum essay, “Why I still cling to the mailman.” Sending and receiving full-fledged, handwritten personal letters is rare for me these days. But I still believe in personal, hand-signed greeting cards, and I avail myself of every opportunity to send one via letter carrier; electronic greetings just aren’t the same. Additionally, I’m happy to affix a first-class stamp and send any number of items, when I could just as easily forward them via e-mail. It’s my way of supporting an institution I believe we will all sorely miss, if and when postal carriers become a thing of the past.

Alan Willis
Portland, Ore.

Underlying causes of shootings

While the online article “Santa Barbara Killings: Did misogynist hate groups play a role?” (, May 28) makes a valid point that male shooters have been influenced by misogyny, I wonder if there is a more basic point to explore: the oversexualization of US culture. Because of this oversexualization, an unstable person may well think that he or she is entitled to sex. That’s the true problem that needs addressing.

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Dan Lozer
Struble, Iowa

Good parents can be made

Regarding the May 19 cover story, “Can parenting really be taught?”: There is no question in my mind that parenting can be taught. I was a high school health education teacher for 32 years in Long Island, N.Y., and our senior health course had a section on parenting. We taught about relationships, marriage, family planning, and children, including positive ways to raise them. I disagree with the notion that developing children’s “self-esteem” was a failure. You cannot “give” children self-esteem, but you can help develop it. And children with real self-esteem will not be “underachievers and bullies.”

Ira H. Gibel
Pine, Ariz

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