These are some of the basic needs Ms. Rosenthal lists for entering shared ownership. You must:
* Make sure you and your partner trust each other.
* Agree with your partner on whether the property is for personal use only, or whether it may be rented out.
* Establish basic rules governing how the co-owned property is to be cared for (including provisions for maintenance and repairs), who uses it when, and the shape it is to be in when handed over.
* Set regular times to talk about your partnership.
* Learn how to talk to your partner and when.
* Decide whether a lawyer should check over a written agreement.
* Not jeopardize the partnership by putting too much emphasis on minor inconveniences.
Finally, as Ms. Rosenthal puts it: ''If the shoe fits, share it.''